Happy Mother’s Day!

I woke up to the sound of Princess yelling, “Surprise! Happy Mother’s Day!” Her bright smiling face was just a few inches from mine. Needless to say, I was a bit startled. But, her voice was like music to my ears.

She presented me with an unsigned Mother’s Day card with a beautiful note inside. Her dad quickly rushed into the bedroom to try and stop her from revealing her gift too soon. But he was too late, and it was fine by me.

I couldn’t have imagine any other way to start Mother’s Day. Her card was absolutely beautiful, and this coupon booklet was like the icing on the cake. With the help of her teachers, she managed to put together such a thoughtful gift. I tried to put this one to use later in the day, but that didn’t work out.
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My hubby made pancakes for breakfast, surprised me with a thoughtful present, and we enjoyed the rest of the day.
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Happy Mother’s Day to all you hard working mommies out there!

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Should You Plan to Start a Family?

It’s funny how my life has changed in a matter of a couple of years. It wasn’t long ago that having children was the furthest thing from my mind. I remember people asking my hubby and I, “When do you guys plan on having kids?” We’d always give the polite answer, “We’re not ready.”

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I must admit it did get annoying. But, we weren’t living our lives to please everyone. We just wanted to make sure that we had everything in place. There’s nothing wrong with that, right? Some may say that there’s no such thing as ‘planning to have children.’ In fact, many people told us that. But, I beg to differ. I’m not just talking financially prepared, although it’s extremely important. I’m referring to making sure that we were mentally ready to take on such a huge responsibility.

Before having Princess, it was all about career, enjoying each other, and building a foundation. My hubby and I have been successful at achieving that. It took a few years, but we eventually decided it was time.

Ever since we welcomed Princess into our lives, there’s been no turning back. In just a few short months our family will grow from three to four, and we couldn’t be more excited. Ok, I’ll admit it did take a while to get used to the idea. But now, I couldn’t be happier. We’ll continue to set more goals to attain as a family.

Even though our second baby came at a surprise, I’m so glad that we planned to start a family.

For now, I’m just enjoying the spot we’re in.

Should you plan to start a family? Did you?

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A Multi-Cultural Easter

When I was a kid, I never really understood Easter in America. Being from Jamaica, my siblings and I would start the day with a traditional Jamaican breakfast, ackee and sal (cod) fish with fried dumplings. We did our usual walk to church on Sunday, and heard about the death and re-birth of Jesus all over again.

The holiday has always been celebrated differently all over the world. But in our house, we never got to rock a brand new Easter outfit on Sunday, and we knew nothing about decorating or hunting for eggs. This was all foreign to me when I moved here from Jamaica. For us, Easter was a holiday spent at church and with family. My mom prepared a big feast, and we got to enjoy Jamaican bun and cheese.

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To this day, I’m not sure I’m with the whole American Easter tradition. But let’s face it, Princess is multi-cultural. It’s only right for me take one for the team.

Since I never got to don a new dress on Easter, I wanted to make sure my baby had a brand new one. We started the day with a healthy breakfast. I made some ackee and sal fish with breadfruit, Jamaica’s national dish. Unfortunately, Princess and her dad weren’t into it, so I had to make them eggs.

We attended church.

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She kept saying, “Shhh, we have to be quiet in church.”

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Despite three bathroom breaks, Princess did make through the entire service. I was pleasantly surprised that she lasted that long. I wondered if it’s because knew she had a bunch of surprises waiting for her. My hubby and I told her if she behaved, she’d be rewarded. We started with a Easter egg hunt with a twist.

I knew that Grandma had another hunt along with goodies, so we wanted to do something different.

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After returning from Grandma’s, we had dinner. My mom later stopped by with bun and cheese. Princess had more eggs to hunt for inside, and Grandma got a kick out of watching her look for them.

I still don’t really understand why American’s make such a big deal about bunny’s, eggs, and jelly beans on Easter. But, I did enjoy the day.

Although Princess had fun decorating and hunting, I still want her to know about the significance of this day.

We actually went to the library the other day and picked up this book which highlights the significance behind different traditions. I was such a proud mama watching my little girl enjoy herself. But, Easter is more than gifts. It’s important to know the true meaning behind it. I’m so glad we got to spend it as a family, and even happier that we began our own tradition.

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Decorating Easter Eggs

Dyeing eggs wasn’t something we did back home in Jamaica. Since Princess is half American, I can’t deprive her of the tradition. It was our first time doing this. It’s a bit rough. But, we had a lot of fun.

Did you do any crafts with you kiddo for Easter?

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Happy Birthday Boo!

I like to think that I always have it together. I’m always careful to make the right decisions in life. But, that wasn’t always the case. Like many young girls, I was looking for love in all the wrong places.

Then I met the love of my life, only I didn’t know it at the time. We were kids in college. Our paths seemed to cross at the worse possible time. I felt broken. I had been through so much, and wondered how I’d make it through each day. But, he put up with all my craziness.

It took me a while to realize that he was all I needed, and I thank God I didn’t ruin a great thing. I see so many girls get caught up in the superficial. They don’t know a good man when they see him. They’re busy focusing on the physical and less on the connection. I’m glad I didn’t make that mistake. Don’t get me wrong, my man ain’t busted. In fact, he’s fine! The fact that he’s so humble makes him even more handsome. However, that’s not why we’re together.

I knew then that he’d be the best husband ever. I knew in my heart that he’d support my decisions, my career, and he’d be the best dad. We’ve become the perfect pair. I’m so glad I came to my senses.

He’s my best friend, my lover, my everything. Happy Birthday Boo!

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