I’ve never been a high maintenance type of chick. I didn’t rock the hottest trends because we couldn’t afford it growing up, and I was okay with that.
As a former athlete, my main concern was keeping my grades up so that I wouldn’t get kicked off the team. I really didn’t put too much effort into the looks department. As long as my clothes were clean and I didn’t look crusty, it was all good.
I was never one of those girls who needed to get a touch up every 6-8 weeks either. In fact, some of the girls would make fun of my out-grown roots. I’d laugh it off and keep it moving. The girls I rolled with were pretty much in the same boat as me. We were cute, smart, and we played ball.
It wasn’t until I graduated high school that I started to put more thought into my appearance. People started telling me I was pretty and I was like, “word?” I had began modeling and participating in pageants. The experience changed the way I viewed myself.
Don’t get me wrong, I knew I wasn’t busted. But I didn’t exactly think of myself as supermodel material either. Being in that arena taught me poise, but most importantly – it helped me become comfortable in my own skin. I learned the tricks and trade of makeup application and how to rip the runway. I also developed a pretty tough skin, which is something that’s needed in my current profession.
All that said, these experiences have helped me become the woman I am today. But once I became a mom, I underwent another transformation. I’m back to preferring a more simple look.
Even though my pageant and modeling days are behind me, I can still look the part. Hey, what girl doesn’t love dressing up?
However, I’m way more comfy when I’m makeup free, rockin’ jeans and a shirt or a simple dress. You see, when you’re a mom comfy works best. While I enjoy getting dolled up, I also love being natural (that includes my hair). Besides, it’s a little difficult to have makeup plastered on your face when you you’re running after little ones.
Being a mom has changed the way I see myself. I could care less about being all made up. Moms out there who feel insecure about their wrinkles or fine lines may consider getting botox injections from a professional botox clinic to help regain your self confidence. Medical grade facials in Naperville, IL or a PRP therapy in Oak Brook, IL may also help improve the condition and appearance of your face. An IPL laser treatment is also worth considering if you want to reduce the fine lines or acne scars on your face.
I also love sporting my natural curls. I’m comfortable in the skin I’m in and I feel beautiful.
How has becoming a mom changed the way you see yourself?
You look beautiful both ways! Good for you for finding your joy.
I think it changes all of us – and in a positive way. I loved learning more about you, I didn’t know you were a pageant girl. Keep rocking the natural look and be who you want to be!
Thanks Kristen! Were you in pageants too?
Motherhood has definitely shifted my priorities. I’ve never been all about myself…as I’ve tended to always play nurturer and worry about all my loved ones needs first…but as a MOM, I have become the ultimate protector and caregiver…there is NOTHING I wouldn’t give for my little guys and I think that’s where there may be some change or realization anyway…to see how far I can push myself and go, for my babies. THEY. ARE. MY. WORLD.
OMG OMG OMG– I love your hair in that last photo. You are beautiful. I’m not a mom– but I think the older you get the more comfortable you get “in your skin”– I walk out without makeup done.. hair big– lol. Love this
I think it’s awesome that you are comfortable in your skin, Your beautiful. When I was a new mom, if I showered, I felt dressed up. #Mommy Bloggers #MediaBloggers
i feel like we transform and grow with every stage and in different ways. and you can learn anything from everything – if you;re open to seeing it! you look like a pretty mama with or without make up on!