The thought of Princess no longer being the only child is bittersweet. My hubby and I are super excited about the impending birth of our next child. We’ve always wanted two kids. But I can’t front, I do enjoy spoiling our only little girl.
As I’ve mentioned in a previous post, I want to make these last moments are special for her. I’ve made it a point to reassure her that although things will change, she’ll always be our little girl and that we’ll always be here for her.
Princess has also taken it upon herself to become little Miss Independent. Whether it’s putting on her own shoes, attempting to get herself dressed, or cleaning her play area. She wants to do things by herself. But there are times when she reverts back to baby mode; like wanting to be picked up from time to time.
Just last night we had a chat about the changes that lie ahead. She’s excited about meeting her “brother, sister, and the baby.” There’s only one bun in the oven (that we’re aware of). But for some reason, she refers to the baby that way. I guess it’s because we’ve deciding to make this new arrival a surprise.
I plan to soak in these last few weeks by spending as much time together as possible. I’m hoping to continue our Family Summer Fun Series. But I’m not sure how much I’ll be able to do. I can tell that this baby wants out. Whatever we decide to do will have to be local.
How did your child handle being a brother or sister?
My daughter was the same way before her sister was born. She was 3 when she became a big sister and was literally my best friend and a spoiled one at that. I was so worried for her losing her favorite status with mommy but she embraced the older sister title and that made her even more special. I included her in everything I did for the baby and that made her feel important. I also made it a priority to still spend time with her alone after the baby was born, so we had plenty of movies dates, ice cream outings, etc. Even with our private time, she still enjoyed us being together as a complete family more than anything. Now we are expecting a baby boy on August 21 to throw off the curve again 🙂
Good Luck! She will be the perfect big sister.
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I can’t imagine. I often wonder how others do have one and then the other. The whole transition of time, and lifestyle change. I’ll be interested in hearing others.
I went from 0 to 2 in 1 minute.
My twins, born natural, came into this world together and it’s been that way ever since. One day it was just the husband and I, the next two little beings totally dependent on us.
I often wonder what it would have been like to have just one child and then the other. To just sit and look at one set of little toes and gaze into their eyes. My days were spent with me wondering what day it was. I absolutely ADORE my twins and the good lord knew I needed more than one and knew I was only going to do it once. They are my miracles, my blessings and I wouldn’t change anything for the world.
I know it will be a beautiful little blessing for you and the family. Looking forward to seeing him/her 😉
So sweet! I think it’s really important to prepare children for a new brother/sister (or both hahah) before they’re born. It sounds like you’re doing a fabulous job! My mom and dad gave a gift to the older child(ren) and said it was from the baby to help prevent jealousy–I’m gonna try that when we have our second. 🙂